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An Introduction to an Outward Mindset

04. Transforming Conflict

When we are in collusion, we think the other person or group is solely to blame. If this is true, our only solutions are to try and change them, bite our lip and put up with them, or get rid of them (or leave the situation ourselves). We feel stuck. However, we discover other possible ways out of collusion by considering our role in perpetuating the problems we complain about.

 

Resolving Collusion (a)

After diagramming our collusions, we can go deeper and learn to de-blame our collusions. Working through this process helps us turn outward and transform our relationships.
 
As you work through this module, consider:
  • What did you discover using the "Resolve Collusion" tool?
 
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